Despite many people assuming the wedding crashers was only a poor attempt at making a funny movie there are people like those portrayed who regularly attend weddings they are not invited to. Some of these people are looking for free food and a little entertainment, but many of them are like the characters portrayed and are looking to find women who will be feeling vulnerable as another of their friends marry and they remain alone. Men who would do this are low life’s who have little regard for women but think they will make a big score by sneaking into a wedding and chatting up the women who are there. This phenomenon is so common that there are actually websites with rules for crashing weddings.
To begin with wedding crashers should be careful where they sit. It does not matter whether you pretend to be on the bride’s side or the groom’s side it is the row you choose that can make you suspicious. Depending on the size of the wedding sitting around the fifth row is a good place. It makes you appear like you belong and so must be an invited guest. Sitting at the back to try and appear unnoticed actually is more likely to send the signal that you do not belong there. It is suggested that you never use your own name. Therefore you should take the time to rehearse using and answering to whatever fake name you have chosen. If you are attending with a fellow crasher makes sure you know the name he is using and that he is familiar with your alias. Getting names wrong is a dead giveaway that you do not belong there.
There are a ways to get noticed that are suggested in the rules. Being the life of the party is one such suggestion. This certainly gets you noticed by the single women who are alone. But, do not become the life of the party by drinking too much. Limit yourself to one glass of liquor or two beers; no more. A drunk does not appeal to anyone and by over imbibing you could be asked to leave or worse, you could give yourself away.
If you are looking to make an impression on the ladies first dance with the senior women. Also, dance with the kids. This gives you the appearance of a sweet guy and women will find this an attractive quality. Once you have shown how sweet you can be then you can ask her to dance. Show vulnerability, this attracts women who will want to heal you. Some wedding crashers like to go with a tragic story hoping for sympathy. They tell the women that they have recently been through a great loss, either the death of a long time girlfriend or fiancé. Another story they tell is that they have just been dumped. This can be said in the early part of the conversation and explains why you have attended alone. Some guys try to drop hints about having a lot of money but this one sometimes turns women away as it seems to many of them that it is no more than a pick up line.
The main method used by wedding crashers is to watch for wedding announcements in the papers and then pick weddings that look like they will be big enough to attend, getting lost in the crowd, without being so big that there will be security and wedding invitations may be checked at the door. No one will be the wiser as you blend in avoiding circumstances that require you to prove you are invited. Make sure you decide on whether you are there for the bride or groom and try to pick someone you might be related to. A little research keeps you from being thrown out. Wedding crashers are not welcome!
Related Information:
